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Welcome to my blog. I document my adventures in love, life and everything in between. Hope you have a nice stay!

Why I Became A Blogger

Since I have a new look and new name I thought I would share why I decided to become a blogger.

Starting a blog was a dream of mine but I wasn't sure what to blog about.

Then one day in June of 2015 it hit me…OMG you will be 40 soon…what are you going to do with your life and the blog was born. If you are new here my previous blog name was "I Am Almost 40 Now What"

The purpose of this blog is for me to learn to love the life I have instead of the one I envisioned. I feel like I didn’t really enjoy my 30s because I was only focused on getting married and having kids and I know I missed out on a lot of life.

I made a promise to myself that when I turned 40 I would live and enjoy this thing called life. This blog is like my journal.

I’m working really hard to make sure I’m loving life, but at the same time I still give myself permission to have a woe is me moment. The only difference is now I choose not to live in them. I make a conscious effort to wake up every day and be happy and some days it’s hard but I work at it.

The truth still remains that I want to get married and become a mom so there are times that it hits me and at that point you may get a woe is me post.

At the end of the day this blog is a reflection of who I am and who I want to become and slowly, but surely I will get there.

I hope you will join me on this journey while I’m learning to love the life that God has planned for me not the one I planned.


CC (Crowned CaNesha)

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