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It’s 2020 Now What

NYE!!

NYE!!

Well this post is late but my 2020 begins this month. LOL!

With that being said I have been reflecting. I’m reminded of how time really does fly. One of the things I have really been thinking about is how I don’t make good use of my time.

I tend to get everything completed, but it is usually chaotic and stressful. Time waits for no one and I must do better. I  also want to make sure I  am doing everything that makes ME happy. Not what makes others happy, but what truly makes me happy.

2019 was a good year. I  can’t complain. I  stepped out of my comfort zone a lot, focused a lot on blogging and grew in my full-time job. It was definitely a good year, but it made me know I  can do so much more. At times I  look at my age and think it’s too late but, other times I’m like  42 where? This confidence is building too. LOL!

Focused. I hope!

Focused. I hope!

But here’s the thing I don’t like New Year’s resolutions. I never keep them and I  feel like they put so much pressure on you, but at the same time I know I need something to keep me accountable. So what is a girl to do?

I decided I’m going to make a list of goals for 2020 which probably will sound like resolutions, but let me think they are different okay. LOL! I know some people write out goals for each month. That scares me. The thing is I know I have the type of personality that if I  don’t make it by the end of the month a woe is me moment will come. So I’m going to write them out and not give myself a time frame. Well before 2021 but not like by month end, I will have _____. 

Some things will have dates/deadlines, but not all. I guess the main thing is I need to write it out and make it plain and that is something I have never done. They are just thoughts/ideas in my head. I  also want to write them down because it is something so exciting about having a strike through mark so that’s it. I’m going to make a list of goals/things I want to accomplish in 2020 and draw a line through them as they are accomplished/completed.

I feel good about this, but it is also the first of the year and most of us are always hype and excited so I think I will do quarterly updates. If you have followed me a while, then you know about “You Go Girl.” Well, I’m remixing it and instead of monthly it will be quarterly. I will give y’all an update of where I am. I’ll be honest, some goals I  may not share until they are accomplished because I’m a scary cat but I’ll share most of them. Promise.

What do you have planned for 2020? I would love for you to share so we can keep each other honest.

Walking into 2020 beginning in February. LOL!

Walking into 2020 beginning in February. LOL!

Here’s to a great 2020!

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