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It’s Okay to have Fears

“It’s not human to not have fears.”

Gabrielle Union

 I’m scared of a lot of stuff…pets, death, taking chances, letting go, approaching men, haunted houses and more. I beat myself up a lot for being such a scary cat, but in this year of growth I’ve realized something…fear is okay.

I’m human, and I can assume that most of us are afraid of something. Maybe not a long list like mine, but something. The issue comes in when you let it dictate your life, that’s when it becomes a problem.

Some of my fears I’m leaving them right where they are i.e. haunted houses, there is no reason I need to go in one, my life is not going to change if I scream for a full hour or however long they last but my life may change if I take more chances.

I mean I took a big one…you remember the swimsuit right? #NashvilleCurves. That was big but there is so much more I want to do so I have to put on my big girl panties and get it done.

We are less than three months away from 2019 and I want to kick it off with a bang so fear step off and let me be great!

“I’m always reminded of this quote “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” Mae West

Let’s live this life to the fullest so when it’s over and we are watching the highlight reel of our life we can say well done!

Thanks for reading,

Crowned CaNesha

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