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Lean Into Discomfort

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“If we can learn to deal with our discomfort and just relax into it we’ll have a better life.”

Mellody Hobson


This is one of the hardest things I face…discomfort is scary to me. I am a creature of habit and I like to feel comfortable, so anything out of my usual routine freaks me out.

As year 40 has flown by (41 will be here in less than 2 weeks) I truly understand that time is precious and if I keep living in comfort, I am going to miss some good living.

I know there is so much more I can do, especially with blogging, but it makes me nervous even thinking about it. I have a fear of being judged, messing up and rejection.

I know that if I don’t take a chance I will never know the outcome.

I have to understand that rejection is okay, if people judge me who cares and if I mess up, I can always try again.

Life is really short and I don’t want to be 80 years old sitting on the porch with my husband (speaking it into existence LOL) or friends in my rocking chair discussing the coulda, woulda, shoulda’s.

 Instead, I want to be saying HONEYYY…once I hit my 40s, I started living and I have no regrets.

In my defense, I am living more…I feel like I have begun to blossom at 40 (blog post about that later) but there is so much more I can do and I should do to make sure that I am doing everything to find and live my happy.

Have you ever done anything that made you uncomfortable and if so how did you overcome that fear?


Crowned CaNesha

Good Bye 40!

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